<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154300107190090012</id><updated>2011-07-08T04:03:20.815-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Self-Pity Is Your Own Worst Enemy</title><subtitle type='html'>Successful people believe in themselves. If you do not believe in yourself, who will? A poor-self-image is the biggest obstacle to success in life. A great way to be happy is to believe you have the ability to achieve.

Find out why you have a poor self-image and do something about it. Nobody’s going to do it for you; you have to do it yourself. Find out what you don’t like about yourself and change it.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://selfpityisypurownworstenemy.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6154300107190090012/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://selfpityisypurownworstenemy.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Moe Navidi</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03817493494663635367</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_AfXsnphx0_4/ST7MwjQC_eI/AAAAAAAAAAY/xNYvPPZsPI4/S220/Moe+Headshot+web.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154300107190090012.post-6302923981440501334</id><published>2009-01-12T15:20:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-19T13:21:30.948-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Self-Pity Is Your Own Worst Enemy</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AfXsnphx0_4/SWzbDf2WpNI/AAAAAAAAALk/3V_i5YzJDaw/s1600-h/LogoFullBlueSmall%5B1%5D.gif"&gt;&lt;img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 120px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 53px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5290844515389056210" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AfXsnphx0_4/SWzbDf2WpNI/AAAAAAAAALk/3V_i5YzJDaw/s200/LogoFullBlueSmall%5B1%5D.gif" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 89px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 116px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5290842947566437122" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AfXsnphx0_4/SWzZoPQUAwI/AAAAAAAAALM/abVwKJqrDBw/s200/Moe+Headshot+web.jpg" /&gt; &lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Moe Navidi&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Real Estate Consultant&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lic# 01753283&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Tel: (949) 892-7077&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="mailto:gooddeals@homesbynavidi.com"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;gooddeals@homesbynavidi.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.homesbynavidi.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.homesbynavidi.com/&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Self-Pity Is Your Own Worst Enemy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_AfXsnphx0_4/SWzZoYlLSyI/AAAAAAAAALc/j7LRaAvLUzY/s1600-h/gloria+pic4-Business.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Successful people believe in themselves. If you do not believe in yourself, who will? A poor-self-image is the biggest obstacle to success in life. A great way to be happy is to believe you have the ability to achieve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Find out why you have a poor self-image and do something about it. Nobody’s going to do it for you; you have to do it yourself. Find out what you don’t like about yourself and change it. Make a list of your strengths and weaknesses and seek advice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Self-pity is a real danger to your success. Don’t dwell on negative things in your life unless you can change them. But if you can’t, change your attitude by looking at them from different angles, and don’t let them interfere with the things you can do something about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The greatest victory you can ever achieve in life is a victory over yourself. We tend to be our own worst enemy at times. Understand what is best for you and go after it. Know your strength and build on them. 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